tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8280627664599611047.post1107663354773744808..comments2023-04-18T02:43:28.430-07:00Comments on An empty chair at our table: WorriesAlicehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02472729169216109749noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8280627664599611047.post-70315674787373472892011-04-06T13:52:38.121-07:002011-04-06T13:52:38.121-07:00Alice, I spotted this on the web and thought of yo...Alice, I spotted this on the web and thought of you:<br /><br />Worry is interest we are paying on a problem we don't yet have.<br /><br />Let's hope your current worries don't become the problems you envisage. Your surrogate mum wouldn't have made her decision to have your baby lightly.<br /><br />Try not to be so hard on yourself, especially in the early hours.<br />Thinking of you.<br /><br />LucyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8280627664599611047.post-69642926236959051062011-04-05T07:43:38.210-07:002011-04-05T07:43:38.210-07:00This shows an enormous amount of compassion and lo...This shows an enormous amount of compassion and love despite your own great loss(es) -- not your selfishness. Not at all. Your surrogate likely knows the drill, and her family is gradually learning to find joy in bringing it to others. Which is an awesome lesson for a six year old.<br /><br />Keep worrying, and I'll sit and feel positive for you. How's that?Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.com